When it comes to relationships we are a culture of people that loves or hates. That’s it. Those are our choices. There’s no murky middle ground where we sift the silt for hidden options, new ideas or even re-evaluate the more »

“If we are only guided by other people’s thoughts what’s the point of having our own?” (Oscar Wilde) The other day I was answering a friend’s questions about relationship mythology. An alternative to therapy, Relationship Myth is a unique approach to couples work. This more »

“The finger pointing at the moon is not the moon.” ~ Zen proverb Anyone who knows as much or as little as I do about the world of finance has probably heard of derivatives. And anyone who’s ever heard an more »

“To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, more »

“Seems like everybody has a price. I wonder how they sleep at night when the sale comes first and the truth comes second.” (Jessie J. and B.O.B.) I’m a music junkie not just because a great tune can take me more »